She married an African man at 21 and left us… but every year she sends us the same message”

She married an African man at 21 and left us… but every year she sends us the same message”

My name is Theresa, and I am sixty-three years old. I’ve been a widow since I was young, and I raised my only daughter, Mary Lou, entirely on my own. She was smart, sweet, and beautiful. Everyone said she had a great future. And it seemed like she did.

At twenty-one, she met Kang Jun, a Ko:re:an man nearly twenty years older than her. I opposed it — not out of prejudice, but because of the age gap and the distance. But my daughter was stubborn. There was a determination in her eyes that I had no power to change.

They married in a simple ceremony. A month later, she left with him for SK. At the airport, she hugged me and cried. I cried too, but in silence. I thought she would return in a few years. She never did. One year passed.